Why Unhappiness, Depression, Suicide Rates Peak at 45 Years of Age

It appears that the mid-life crisis has more profound, concerning and widespread impacts than we thought. It may be built into our genes, rather than be due to changing circumstances and our failure to cope with getting old.

Perhaps surprisingly, the mid-40's is the peak time for unhappiness, highest depression rates and highest suicide rates. Even the great apes share the same pattern for peak unhappiness in middle age and so it may be linked to our biology and hormone changes as we get old.

Teenagers, the mid-20's and mid-30's groups, and older folk ( >60 years) are relatively much happier. Many people assume that the troubled teenage years is the peak age for depression and suicide, but the risks are far higher for the mid-40's group, which should be in the prime times of their lives, with all their troubles about careers, finances, relationships and health issues well taken care of.

Why does this occur?

This article presents data on happiness, depression rates for various age groups to confirm these findings. It also reviews some of the reasons why this may occur.

The trough in the age-related depression rate reaches a minimum at about 45 years of age. Discover why in this article
The trough in the age-related depression rate reaches a minimum at about 45 years of age. Discover why in this article. Source: Public Domain

Most people assume that as children we have a trouble free existence. As teenagers many of us struggle with all sorts of miserable confusion, and self doubt and hormone triggered mood swings. Then when people enter middle age everything is resolved, and everyone should be happy and contented, enjoying families, with warm established and fulfilling relationships and financial security. But, this is completely wrong. As the graphs show the middle age years, the mid-40's, are for many people the worst time of their lives. At around 45 years of age the unhappiness, depression and suicide rates all reach their maximum levels. This is when the risk of being unhappy peaks leading to increased depression and suicide. This pattern is very alarming and not well known. Because of this, the support offered for middle age people suffering high depression rates is often neglected.

The U-shaped trend of happiness over the life span (lowest in middle age, and higher for youth and senior citizen age groups) has been demonstrated all around the world and appears to be universal and biologically driven. Research studies have confirmed the pattern in more than 70 countries, both developing and developed countries, with surveys of more than 500,000.

The type of questions asked were:

‘On the whole, are you very satisfied, fairly satisfied, not very satisfied, or not at
all satisfied with the life you lead?’

‘Taken all together, how would you say things are these days – would you say that you are very happy, pretty happy, or not too happy?’

There are some interesting patterns in the data:

Age for Minimum Life Satisfaction (Happiness) in Various Countries

Country
Age for Lowest Life Satisfaction
Country
Age for Lowest Life Satisfaction
All Countries
46.1
Korea
40
Albania
40
Kyrgyzstan
47.7
Argentina
49.3
Latvia
51
Australia
40.2
Lithuania
50.4
Azerbaijan
45.8
Macedonia
49.8
Belarus
52.6
Malta
49.9
Belgium
52.2
Mexico
41.4
Bosnia
55.6
Netherlands
54.6
Brazil
36.6
Nigeria
42.4
Bulgaria
53.4
Norway
43.9
Canada
54
Peru
39.5
China
46.5
Philippines
40.4
Croatia
48.1
Poland
50.2
Czech Republic
47.2
Puerto Rico
35.6
Denmark
46.1
Romania
51.2
El Salvador
47.8
Russia
55.3
Estonia
45.1
Serbia
49
Finland
44.9
Slovakia
46
France
61.9
South Africa
41.8
Germany
47.5
Spain
50.2
Great Britain
48.1
Sweden
49
Hungary
52.3
Switzerland
35.2
Iceland
49.3
Tanzania
46.2
Iraq
51.7
Turkey
45
Ireland
50.3
Ukraine
62.1
Israel
58.3
Uruguay
53.1
Italy
50.7
USA
40.1
Japan
49.8
Zimbabwe
42.9

What is the Explanation for These Findings?

It is sad but true that there is no definitive answer. No one has been able to really prove what causes the high depression rates and low happiness rates in middle age. But there has been some speculation:

Conclusion

While there has been a lot of speculation about the causes of depression in middle age, there is a clear need for better research to provide real and proven reasons and answers.

There is also a clear need for society to recognise that people in their 40’s are at greatest risk.

One of the greatest challenges is recognises gender differences in depression. The different symptoms in men and women can cause a lack of understanding and poor diagnosis. The table below summarizes some the gender differences.

Gender Differences in Depression Symptoms

Symptoms in men
Symptoms in women
Anger, irritability, ego inflation
Feels sad, apathetic, worthless
Becomes controlling
Difficulty maintaining boundaries
Becomes over status-conscious
Assumes low status
Blames others
Tendency to self-blame
Compulsiveness
Procrastination
Creates conflict
Avoids conflict
Fear of failure
Problems with success
Feels suspicious, guarded
Feels anxious, frightened
Over use of internet/TV/email
Withdrawal
Restlessness and agitation
Slows down, nervousness
Self-medicates through alcohol
Self-medicates through food
Shame
Guilt
Sleeps too little
Sleeps to much

Helping Men Overcome Depression

Because men often deny the symptoms and don’t seek help they can be more difficult to treat. Some tips are:

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The peak in depression rates and when more people are unhappy occurs around the age of 45 years when most [people have a lot to live for with grand children and peak in productivity at work
The peak in depression rates and when more people are unhappy occurs around the age of 45 years when most [people have a lot to live for with grand children and peak in productivity at work. Source: Public Domain
How the depression rate changes with age - peaking at around 45 years of age
How the depression rate changes with age - peaking at around 45 years of age. Source: Public Domain
Depression rates for various age groups
Depression rates for various age groups. Source: Public Domain
Suicide rates for various age groups
Suicide rates for various age groups. Source: Public Domain
Common causes of age related depression in women
Common causes of age related depression in women. Source: Public Domain
Percentage of people in various age groups diagnosed with depression
Percentage of people in various age groups diagnosed with depression. Source: Public Domain
Facts about depression
Facts about depression. Source: Public Domain